I Transform Families
by helping the parents of LGBTQIA+ children who are struggling with their child's identity.
Your relationship with your child is challenging right now. They have come out to you and you feel like you are failing them. You may be filled with grief and doubt and become discouraged. You are afraid for them. You have questions you want answered and no one to ask. You are worried about how your partner will react when they are told. You don't know how to tell people.
Everything just seems so hard.
How Do I Do It?
We do it together. Through one on one coaching, I will help you uncover what exactly is causing your emotional pain, and teach you tools and strategies to manage your thoughts and feelings more effectively.
When your child tells you they are gay, non-binary or transgender, or anywhere else on the gender and sexuality spectrum, you immediately have a lot of thoughts and feelings about it. Instead of feeling grateful and happy that your child has shared this with you, you may feel fear, disappointment, anger, or frustration. Or maybe experience a mix of all of it. It can be a roller coaster ride that you aren't prepared for.
As parents, we have expectations for our children, and when they don't meet those expectations, it can create negative emotions. On top of those negative emotions, you feel guilt, and that sets you up to feel shame, which feels terrible.
Our feelings drive all our actions, and I promise you that no great parenting moments will ever come out of guilt or shame -- the best ones come out of love. I will help you sort through the complicated emotions that you have around your LGBTQIA+ child, whether they are still under your wing or a fully-fledged adult, so that your relationship with them can move forward in love.
How Does It Work?
No thoughts you are having are off-limits. No feeling is unacceptable. Even though you may feel alone, you are not alone. Coaching is a judgement-free space to work out all your ugly in a confidential setting.
I will teach you how to process the emotions you are experiencing about your child's journey, grieve the child you thought you had and learn to take responsibility for your own happiness and emotional wellness. You will learn to set healthy boundaries. You will stop trying to manipulate and control other people. Each program can be tailored to your specific needs.
Please click on my "Book Online" page and schedule a free, one-hour Discovery Call. Bring all your questions. I can't wait to speak with you!
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